One of the things I see constantly in my clients is people holding themselves back based on their own self-concept rather than the external factors in the world around them.
Throughout life, people make decisions about themselves that may or may not be true. Or they are true some of the time and people extrapolate that idea to their entire life.
How many people do you see that would tell you they are “shy,” but then you’ve seen them be the life of the party one or more times? How many people seem quiet, but then get up to give a presentation at work and magically find another gear where they are commanding and inspiring? How many people think of themselves as a total bad ass at work, but then come home and are easy-going sweethearts with their children and spouse? And I’m sure everyone is familiar with the often celebrated lady (or gentleman) in the streets who’s a “freak” in the sheets.
All of us have these apparent contradictions in our personalities if we look for them, but most people never stop to investigate these beliefs that sit in the back of their heads and filter all their decisions. We all have dynamic personalities and we all “perform” differently depending on the setting and who we are with.
If you want to move up in the world, level down, or pivot in a different direction, one of the best skills you can develop is to gain control of the different parts of yourself so that you are capable of calling whichever version you need at the time you need. Here’s how to get started:
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6/21/2020 08:39:46 pm
We are all champions and that is a fact because we are competing at the very start of our lives. We are all cells who are moving so fast just to win the race against other cells. We should always have that positive mindset and always believe in the magic and power that we posses. There will be more possibilities if we will believe in it. We can always do what is necessary to achieve bigger things in life. Let us always smile despite the challenges that we feel.
10/7/2021 05:35:53 am
It's difficult to find experienced individuals about this subject, yet you seem like you hear what you're saying! Thankful
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